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This situation has happened twice in my familiy in the past few years.
I decided that things couldn't be fixed and got a divorce (my ex-wife didn't want to work at it and admitted to no longer being in love with me).
My parents decided to stick together, and make a go of it - after a couple of years my father realised it was not right, even though my mother wanted it more than the world, it was wrong for him.
So he left her.
The moral of the story is that I'm much happier, my ex-wife is happier, my father's happier, but my mother is clearly not happier. It's tough.
Sorry to maybe break your dream - but be aware that somethings are so busted that they can't be sorted.
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