Ditto above, use water based.
A fun idea is to have one of those "lotions and sex toy" parties. That way you get to feel the lube (on your finger), taste the lube, etc. before buying. They also let you try out the enhancers. They don't do much for me; but several of my guests were smiling big time when they came out of the bathroom!
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