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I dont' know what to do? I love skating and I don't want to give up something I love because of somepeople that are there.
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just because these people are going to be there.. you shouldn't worry about them being there. if skating is something that you love and you do have people worthy there with you, then that's all that matters. i've been in similar situations and i know how uncomfortable it can be, especially when the people you want to avoid are immature. whatever you do, know that you weren't wrong for anything that happened. you confided in a "friend" and that person betrayed you.
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So I just don't get it anymore. Who can you trust anymore who can you talk to. Maybe I should just close that chapter in my life and get all new friends.
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there are people you can trust. i've learned this after large amounts of trial and error. a good way to start again is to do as
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Exactly. This is why when you make friends, you do it incrementally. Once you think they may be a good friend, share a few things, see how it goes. There's no need to get verbal diarrhea and confess all one's sins and share every deep secret thing in one's heart right away. This takes time.
It never hurts to play your cards close to your chest. You can always say something, but you can never "un-say" something.
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after you do something like this.. it's easy to see who you can trust.
i hope this helps
