Awesome to hear. My wife and I have been doing it for something like a year and a half now, and have been together for almost 4. KY Liquid is your friend, as well as alcohol if your lady drinks. It helps to relax, well, everything. For us, it was after a fancy party one night, we were both a little buzzed, and just kind of agreed to do it. I had mentioned it in the past to her, but at first she absolutely refused. Then we started watching some anal porn, and she started to enjoy watching it, then we moved on to some playing. For us, the best way to warm up is for me to go down on her and finger her, then start rimming and fingering her asshole at the same time. That way, you're already in the area, and it's not such a surprise. Nowdays, my wife really enjoys anal. I think it's more of getting over the 'icky taboo' mindset for most people than anything else.
Hope this helps!
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