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I voted before I read the OP so I chose to keep the baby. I was under the assumption that it was an already born child. Up until delivery you haven't met or formed a bond with the baby so you aren't as attached. Based on how the OP was worded, I'd chose my wife. The first months are so important and I don't think I'd be in a place where I'd be well enough to provide proper care.
However, now that she's almost 2, I'd keep her over my wife and I'd hope my wife would do the same. Adults have had their chance in life, you should ALWAYS keep the existing kid over the adult.
I hope it isn't a threadjack, but what is the cutoff between saving the child over the partner?
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