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Not to make this thread shallow or anything, but it sounds really familliar, in the sense that if a guy is a "Great Guy" he can't get a date for the life of him.
It boils down to the way women see a "perfect" guy. The perfect guy is, most of all, suspect. They don't know what to make of it because there just HAS to be a reason he is being so nice, and doing everything for them. They always worry about a guy's alterior motives, even if there are none.
There is also the fact that it sounds like a 'nice guy' who always smothers the girls they like, giving them no room to breathe. You have to show that you have something to live for, for yourself. Otherwise it puts way too much pressure/stress on them.
Both of these are related to dating, and getting a girl to notice a nice guy, but if you read into them, you really do see parallels to your current situation.
Either way, I wish you the best of luck, and hope that everything works out for the best, whichever direction that takes your lives.
Keep showing her you love her, but also be aware that you may not be giving her the room she needs to think it through on her own.
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