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Originally Posted by Sultana
I think it's kinda odd that her boyfriend (or what passes for her boyfriend, I *guess*) is wanting you to spend time with her, even though he knows you have feelings for her. And that neither she nor he seems remotely concerned about your feelings AT ALL. They both just seem to want you around because it's convenient for her. If she was really your friend, and a mature person, she'd be a little less self-centered, I'd imagine.
I dunno. It's a strange situation all the way around, and I continue to recomend that you stay away from it and find others who think more like you do.
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Uh, sorry for the confusion. It's not her "boyfriend" who wants me to spend time with her, just another guy friend of hers...
and Yes! I thougth of the same thing too! I mean, what the heck, the email *barely* talks about my feelings at all. And for all they know, I could be in a super sad mood from being
rejected by her. Of course, I'm not even close to feeling like that, but they don't know that...
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Originally Posted by ratbastid
No no NO! Don't you dare feel guilty about this, you did NOTHING wrong.
Know why she's so upset? Because you called her on boxing you in. She had it all set up for you to be her bitch for the summer, to keep playing you like the guppy you are. You pulled the rug out from under that, and she's upset about it.
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Yup, I had to put a stop to all this hanging out, because, as you guys were saying, I wouldn't be going anywhere
I wanted to go in this 'relationship'.. thanks for the support, almost fell into a feeling bad moood
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Notice that she looks like the victim and you look like the bad guy. That's not an accident. She's going to set this thing up so that she comes off getting the pity and you get the scorn. You probably could have guessed that she'd do that beforehand, though. Don't play that game with her.
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Well, I don't think she's that tricky of a person, but then again, maybe this kind of thing comes natural to girls.. although her blog is kind of secret (she didn't tell me the location, I googled it), so it's not like its a public show of grief or something..
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Also don't be strange around her. SHE'S the one saying your friendship is over and then blaming you. You'd still hang out with her, right? So who's ending the friendship, really?
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Well, technically I didn't end it. On the phone she said 'aren't we still friends?' and I said "Duh! Of course we are!" But as berMuda pointed out above, my tone was kind of like ending it... but I intended to put a stop to all this hanging out in terms of my
romantic intentions: meaning no more 4-5 hour hangouts, no more paying for stuff, no more thinking of it as a date.
That is, if we were to hang out again, I'd treat her just like any other friend, no more no less.
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Originally Posted by BigBen
Boyfriend: Oh. I wrote you that e-mail so that you could patch things up with her so that she would stop being such a whining bitch. All I want is for her to stop complaining and for me to insert my penis into her vagina. Are you saying she is a psycho crazy man-eater?
Ben: Yes.
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Hahaha! Putting things in perspective..
