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So just when I thought it was over, I get an email from her other guy friend:
(paraphrasing to escape the google-bots, sorry for the misspellings, i hate google-bots):
Note: she never called her guy #1 a boyfriend to me. If she did I would NEVER have stuck around.
Hey _,
Please do not let her know I am writing you this email. She's hurt a lot, and I wantd you to know. I do not like to see her down so much, and as her freind, I wantd to let you know how much yuo took from her. I know how hard it can be to have feelings for a person, with no reciprocation, but I think your decision to not hang out with her is unfair towards her. From waht I know, you will be going to grad school this fall, and she told me you do not do longdistance. So, I do not understand why you had to let her know now, just months b4 you leave, of your feelings beeyond friendship for her. If she could reciprocate the feelings, the relationship wouldn't go far anytime soon because you will be leaving soon. As it is, because she has a boyfreind allready, you haven't done anything except taking away a friendship she very dearly held. If she did not tell you this, you should know that she very much valued the time both of you spent wiht each other. When she imagined college, she thought of doing the things both of you did togehter, and she really doesn't have anyone else as close of a freind as you with whom she can hangout with so very much.
When she explaind her feelings, she was almost bruoght to tears. And for waht? I do not see why for the next few moonths you cannot spend time wiht her so that she can look bak on this summer's friendshp with fondness.
It's not all this easy, I kno, as emotions nevr are, I thougth you should know that she took it prety hard.
Don't let her kno I wrote you this. She did not ask me to speak with you. She only told the story to me and expresed her sorow when we were hanging out the other nite. I hope both of you can enjoy togehter, rather than separate, these last couple of moonths with each other.
- S.
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