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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
lol I guess Dave and I are just different. I dont see telling him that Im leaving to go somewhere without him as losing a freedom...I see it as being courteous
I give up on this, and the other discussion that I somehow sparked....I will just accept that dave and I live in a different reality and be perfectly happy with how it works hehehe
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The way onesnowyowl puts it though, is that losing a freedom is not always a bad thing. And it's not so much a loss of freedom as it is respect for your SO.
Different tastes are negotiated when a couple goes to a movie, restaurant, monster truck rally... I spent a recent bachekor weekend renting all the DVDs I've been wanting to see that I know Ms. Poppy wouldn't appreciate.
It's the type of abating freedoms that is described as sacrifice, which is generally a good thing. You give some, you gets some.
And now the thread is completely jacked.