I don't begrudge anybody who has a live-in arrangement. A grudge would suggest jealousy.
I would never offer unsolicited advice, and likely wouldn't think about it much, actually. It's just one of those things I don't understand. Plus, like a lot of people, I've known those types who constantly move from short term relationship to short term relationship treating them as if they are the answer to housing needs.
I sort of wonder if that's the case with OP's girlfriend.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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