I got a question for you: Why are you so concern about his relationship with her? Yeah sure there's always gonna be feelings of tension or jealousity between the girlfriend and the bf's female friends. But your relationship with him is over and its a good thing you're still friends with him but you gotta ask yourself why you're concern about his relationship with other people, especially with this girl.
Can't you trust him enough to judge you based on the relationship you have with him? Rather than having to judge you based on what others, especially this girl, has to say about you?
Quote:
|
Originally Posted by monkeysugar
2. That's a pretty fucked up reason to break up with someone. If he likes you, what's wrong with being in a relationship with you? Sounds like he's collecting the benefits and calling in sick from work. I know you like the guy, and he probably likes you too, but if he can't man the fuck up and be committed to you, is he even worth your time? Sounds to me like he's comfortable with you, but is keeping things unofficial so if someone else comes along that he likes better, he's free to go without the negative stigma of cheating on you or dumping you for another girl.
|
[threadjack]
Not really a fuck up reason, I had the same reason. Perhaps the ex didn't really talk out why he broke up with her fully. There's more than meets the eye.
[/threadjack]