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Here's what I'd suggest. Think about the situation if it didn't involve your boyfriend. Would you still be interested in being with another woman? If not, then it probably isn't the best choice. You don't want to be doing anything sexually that doesn't feel right to you, especially if you're doing it solely to please him.
It also depends on what you mean by "weird". Is this just your accepting what others might think, or is it how it actually feels to you? You should never do anything sexually that you don't feel comfortable doing solely to please your boyfriend.
This doesn't mean that you shouldn't try to please him, but your needs matter just as much as his, and if your needs aren't being met in some way by this, if it's not right for you, it isn't healthy. Don't do it.
If it excites you and you think you're going to get something out of it, by all means, go for it if you can find another girl who's willing.
Dealing with small town gossip is more difficult, and something I never managed to figure out. Your best bet is to do this some place private where it won't get out, but don't go into it assuming that it will always stay a secret. Three people are going to know about it, and it's very difficult for three people to keep a secret.
I'm very down with the girl on girl action, by the way, and think of it as the epitome of sexual interaction, but it's not for everyone. It's ok not to do this until and unless you feel it's right for you.
Gilda
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