In my opinion .. in order for a relationship to be healthy and able to survive in the long run, both interested parties must retain portions of their individuality, to allow room for both personal and relationship growth. Being able to be secure enough in your relationship to have the trust and will for the occasional or regular desire for some "ME" time ... it seems only natural to me.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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