We buried my mother in October. People wore everything from suits to blue jeans and I appreciated them just being there. Be it a wedding, funeral or birthday party, I’d regret not having anyone I loved or cared about not feel welcome because they worried they did not have the proper attire. If you wish to pay your respects go and do so. Unless you show up dressed for the beach, I doubt anyone in the immediate family will notice. Anyone who would take issue to what you wore within reason I would suspect a busybody.
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