I WAS going to say for the sake of arguement, that moving in is a pretty big step and some people will never feel that they are fully ready. Also, part of loving someone is bending to them. You know putting the other person ahead of yourself, and maybe you should go with your heart this time.
HOWEVER, I read a little more and saw that she recently cheated on you. No dice bro. She sounds like the type of person that needs the power in the relationship, and she lost some of her footing. THis seems like a ploy to regain the upperhand. You can forgive her, like you said, but regaining her trust doesnt come that quickly.
Wounds need time to become scars. Moving in while you are still healing is not a good idea, it could reopen that wound.
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