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From my point of view, moving in at any time is crazy. I was exactly where you are before getting married. I liked my place, I liked being able to go get a paper and coffee every saturday morning, or being able to sit out on my balcony and generally be free.
I also loved my future wife and we moved in together an hour after getting married. Not one second before.
I have never understood what (barring obstacles such as finances or relocation) the whole appeal of co-habitation is. Is it the reduction of space? Is it the joy of having to be considerate of another person's concerns without any binding ties? Is it the handing your nuts over in a change purse?
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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