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Originally Posted by Charlatan
This is the line of a woman who isn't satisfied with you. She doesn't see you as someone she sees as a serious relationship. And yet, she doesn't want to lose you. She likes to keep you around "just in case."
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So yesterday I saw her for the last time and I asked her: "So you really believe that a relationship doesn't need to involve physical intimacy?"
And she said: "Yes."
Me: "Why?"
Her: "Then you know that the feelings are true, that the relationship isn't based on any kind of physical lust."
Since I couldn't resist (!), I told her I liked her yesterday. She said, "Didn't I tell you that I liked guy #1? ... Your making things complicated... Maybe if I had met you before guy #1, things would be different."
So she didn't say she liked me. Oh well. The end. She did say, "I don't see why we still can't hang out."
Me: "It'd be kind of awkward wouldn't it?"
Her: "No, not really. Unless
you think so."
Me: "yeah, kinda"
To paraphrase the rest, we are still friends but I basically said "have a good life. i'll call you for girl advice in the future."
Oh yeah, I thought I'd do her a favor and I told her that I think she has some problems such as intimacy problems :O
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Originally Posted by mokle
Like charlatan said, "just in case". You're the fall back guy. In my case, we actually did have sex together. Didn't change anything, went right back to the cuddle bitch. I got out eventually. Sooner was better than later.
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Yeah, I guess I am the fall back guy. Or something like that. Or fall back friend. bleh.