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Originally Posted by analog
Yet another reason not to be with someone who has kids: I will not be the second fiddle. Period. To me, that is not a relationship. I will not always be second in line in a relationship. That, to me, is ridiculous.
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That's what I have always said/thought. And then I got to know a guy who I didn't immediately know had kids (2 of 'em to be exact) and what do ya know, I couldn't turn off the feelings once I knew he had kids.
While I know I am important to him, as are his kids, I would never assume my role in his life to be more important than the kids. He's never made me feel like "the second fiddle" but at the same time, I am trying to be realistic.