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dawnoffawn · 06-10-2006, 07:04 AM

Hey all,
Thanks for the advice.
Yes, my parents share guardianship with me and we agreed (my ex and I) that we will interact through them, so even my ex wants me to speak through them. He even once stated to me "If you got something to say to me, let your parents say it", so he asked for it.
Thanks, ngdawg, for the concern and advice.
I never badmouthed my ex (but he DID), so my hatred is not explicit, it's only in my heart and my parents know it too (but we don't speak in front of my son). The sad thing is, I don't even think that my son knows that he is his father. He was too young when we separated and even through our short-lived marriage we got separated many times and he never even came to ask about his son, so not only was he a bad mate, he wasn't much of a father.

Suzz04, I'm really sorry for what oyu went through. i'm also noticing problems with my son. We've been trying to potty training for so long and we told his father that we're potty training and that he should also train him while he's with him, but he doesn't listen or care, so until now my son isn't potty trained.
Another problem is that my ex is ALWAYS busy. Even when I call him, he starts arguing and saying that he has no time to listen...even when he takes his son, he's on the phone...he's even on the phone while putting his son in the carseat and driving him. It's no wonder his son does not like him, because he doesn't give him time.

He's also smart (in a wicked way)...he knows how to hurt emotionally and not make it look like he did it, h'es done it to me for 3 years until I left the abusive marriage (emotionally more than physically, so I couldn't even prove it).

06-10-2006, 07:04 AM	#24 (permalink)
dawnoffawn Crazy	Hey all, Thanks for the advice. Yes, my parents share guardianship with me and we agreed (my ex and I) that we will interact through them, so even my ex wants me to speak through them. He even once stated to me "If you got something to say to me, let your parents say it", so he asked for it. Thanks, ngdawg, for the concern and advice. I never badmouthed my ex (but he DID), so my hatred is not explicit, it's only in my heart and my parents know it too (but we don't speak in front of my son). The sad thing is, I don't even think that my son knows that he is his father. He was too young when we separated and even through our short-lived marriage we got separated many times and he never even came to ask about his son, so not only was he a bad mate, he wasn't much of a father. Suzz04, I'm really sorry for what oyu went through. i'm also noticing problems with my son. We've been trying to potty training for so long and we told his father that we're potty training and that he should also train him while he's with him, but he doesn't listen or care, so until now my son isn't potty trained. Another problem is that my ex is ALWAYS busy. Even when I call him, he starts arguing and saying that he has no time to listen...even when he takes his son, he's on the phone...he's even on the phone while putting his son in the carseat and driving him. It's no wonder his son does not like him, because he doesn't give him time. He's also smart (in a wicked way)...he knows how to hurt emotionally and not make it look like he did it, h'es done it to me for 3 years until I left the abusive marriage (emotionally more than physically, so I couldn't even prove it).