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Originally Posted by match000
Why would sirens go off? Because that is the wrong way to develop a relationship? Because she is clearly not mature enough for one?
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I'm going to be blunt.
I don't know the situation or the person enough to know if she's mature enough for a relationship or not, but I've been in those "grey zone" relationship/friendships (are you together, are you not, etc.) more than enough times and personally that's all I can see happening if anything from what you've posted. Been there, done that, would rather take a brick to the head before going through any of that bullshit again. If you're really into her, go for it. Just...keep your options open. I know you like this girl right now, but I challenge you to ask yourself what you are looking for in a relationship, and what you aren't. To simplify this, what's going to make it work for you?
Are you willing to always have to call, always make the move, always make all the effort? Do you really have feelings for this girl, or do you like her because you guys get along and have hung out a little bit? Does that actually sound like a relationship you would want to be in? I know, it's really not like that. This girl's different. This situation is different. I know. I've been there. Keep your options open.