An observation I have made through months of living with my boyfriend:
The little annoyances that just bug you a little now will bug you 10x more when you're living together, because you see the evidence of them a lot more often.
You REALLY have to be ready to make this kind of commitment, and yes, it means sacrificing your freedoms. You don't sound at ALL ready to do this--DON'T DO IT.
And like BigBen said--if she talks shit, find a new girl.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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