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Originally Posted by Halx
I seriously advise against "firing off one last shot"
Consider this; if she caves in at all, you're going to find yourself in a physical situation with a girl who has a warped (yes, warped) sense of physicality. Filling in the middle with your imagination, at the end of it, regardless of if she enjoyed it or not, you're not coming out on top - she is.
Why? One word. All she has to say is one word to justify herself for the guilt of giving in. Even if it was just a little.
Rape.
Don't believe me? Well, it's your life. I've seen this happen to different people. RUN.
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What you said does make sense, but I don't think she's the type that, if she caves in, would go all the way like that anyways... if she did cave in, the most she would do is probably say "I like you" and then hold hands or something..
That is an interesting point. I will keep it in mind in the future(!). Thanks for the warning..
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Originally Posted by abaya
especially if they're religious, and especially if they're young, in college, and involved in a religious social group (is she?).
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Nope, she is totally unreligious at all. I have always wondered how the heck do religious people stand that whole waiting till marriage thing... I guess they really have to 'hold it in'.. or maybe they are all like this girl, emotionally asexual..
Even if things do work in my favour (she likes me), I see the problems that will arise. And you guys are right.. gotta RUN
Being guy #2 in friend-zone, I guess I am supposed to 'hate' guy #1, but I hope he realizes what he has and is continuing to get himself into.. ah well.
And thanks to everyone for all your helpful advice.