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Originally Posted by Infinite_Loser
I know that what she did was a horrible thing, but she only did it once in the two years that I've known her and she confessed to it. Everyone makes mistakes
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I dont want to turn this into a cheaters should burn in hell thread... having been cheated on, it's heartbreaking and it sucks... I think it's admirable that you are able to forgive her and are able to trust her... but make no mistake about it - cheating is not a mistake... don't dismiss it.. she didn't accidentally take her clothes off and jump into bed with a man who wasn't you...
I don't mean this as a slam, so please don't take it thisway... your dismissing it that she only did it once in two years? Do you want to give her a medal forthat?
Now back to the discussion at hand...
If you don't move in with her... what is she going to do? Leave? Do youreally want your future based on an ultimatum?
Why not try doing sleepovers first spend the weekends together and see if you actually can stand being together...