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I just want to re-iterate that I do love spending time with my girlfriend and there are times of the day where I do miss her and wish she were around. However, I don't want her around ALL of the time (If that makes any sense). I like my space. I like being able to take a break from her now and then (Especially when she starts to royally piss me off). I like having my friends over. Those aren't things which I want to give up just yet (Partly selfish, yes, but I don't care).
Anyway, I'm not going to say that our relationship has been perfect because it hasn't (There's that whole cheating incident which I forgave), but I really do love her. I'm simply not ready to start living together yet. Maybe some could say that after two years you would think I'd be a bit more serious, but I thought things were going well (Save the few bumps in the road). Things such as living together and getting married aren't high on my priority list at the moment. That's not saying that I don't want to in the future, but at the present time I just have other things in which I would like to do.
Oh! Before I forget... I know that many people seem to despise cheaters on this board, so I will say this. I know that what she did was a horrible thing, but she only did it once in the two years that I've known her and she confessed to it. Everyone makes mistakes (I'm pretty sure I said that earlier in this thread, but I'm just wanted to re-iterate that point).
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