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Originally Posted by Toaster126
You are a cuddle bitch. On the bright side, if she actually said something like that (almost ready to be official), I would have all kinds of sirens going off in my head - meaning you prolly don't want to be in a relationship with her anyway.
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Why would sirens go off? Because that is the wrong way to develop a relationship? Because she is clearly not mature enough for one?
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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Hang on. You just graduated college, you're headed to grad school. You're at least 21 years old, probably more like 22 or 23, right?
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Yes, I'm 22.
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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Is she involved with the other guy? Does she get involved with men, given that she's waiting for marriage, not romantic, and shy? What are your feelings for her, exactly? What conversation would you need to have with her to express your feelings for her? Are you willing to have that conversation?
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She's involved in some sort of way, such as seeing him once a week (or talking on the phone once a week if he's away). Your right, she doesn't really "get involved" with other men seeing as she's waiting for marriage type; the other night she told me she doesn't see AT ALL why dating/romance should need to involve ANY physicality. She literally said "I don't see why it needs to involve any of that stuff (sex, physical fun, etc), why can't it just be like this [talking]."
However, I have invested alot of time hanging out with her (and alot of $ too). And I find myself liking her, although I feel its lessening as she shows less interest and makes it clearer that I am a cuddle bitch. I guess I know what kind of conversation I need to have, and yes, the next time I see her (if there is one, I told her to call ME), I will have it
