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Learning to live with someone is tough. If you don't have a solid relationship to start with, you're going to have more trouble than it's worth. My SO has been nothing but supportive and understanding while I've been adjusting to our new situation.
If you aren't ready to give up your "freedom," and she isn't flexible enough to tolerate having the guys over once or twice a week, don't do it. You'll be stuck in a lease (unless you get one that's month to month) and that sucks.
It isn't about doing what she wants all the time. I find that letting him go off on his own actually helps since we are in such close quarters now. It takes two strong people to work our a cohab situation. Don't cave, or you'll be a doormat forever; completely ruined for any future women in your life.
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