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As is always said, if they cheat once, they'll cheat again.
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In my experience with women, GF and female friends, this isn't true.
What I say is: If they cheat once, she'll mentally alter the events leading up to it so she "really" didn't cheat.
My ex tried this on me. We stayed friends after, and 4 years later she tells my friend she's never cheated. When I call her on it, she states we were broken up at the time (we weren't). The entire night ensues at which I come to realize she truely convinced herself of that "fact."
She basically did this to you, she convinced you that it was only half her fault and half yours. Which is just a mental construct that you need to call her on her own BS.