Cynthetiq

If you aren't ready you aren't ready is true. But what is the sign of being ready?

I was ready once in my life and we moved in planned, that didn't turn out so well.

Next was circumstance, rommate was going to move I couldn't afford a place by myself, so I moved in with my girlfriend, that also didn't turn out so well.

Last was Skogafoss, we kept seperate apartments for a couple of years, bouncing back and forth depending on the days. She had a cat so she had to go to her place every day even if we stayed at my apartment. Soon we just stayed at her place because it was easier, she lived in the Village, I lived in Queens.

Soon it became obvious that we should just keep one apartment, and so we started looking for a suitable one for us. We didn't find anything we liked and eventually was offered a job in Long Island and we moved out of the city.

After one year we got engaged and then about another year we got married.

YMMV

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