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Originally Posted by Toaster126
What Analog said.
Also, personally I would want to know all the gory details, then I would dump their ass for being an untrustworthy and disrespectful person.
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Amen! I'd say you're probably not totally okay with it if you're still looking for all the details. But whether you want to kick her to the curb, or keep her around, either way those images are going to eat you up, so ask her. Tell her that for you to move forward in the relationship, you need to know what happened so that you can move past it. Once you know, you can then decide whether or not you're OK with it, but I wouldn't try to decide that before. Find out what happened, decide what to do, examine yourself very, very, very hard to find out if you can live with it. As is always said, if they cheat once, they'll cheat again.