'no sign of true committment....'
I'd say sticking around after she ran around on you is a pretty good sign, eh?
Mal and NoSoup have this one already figured out, but let me add...
Any problems you already have in the relationship are just going to be exacerbated by moving in together. Every little quirk has the potential to be the single most annoying idiosyncracy...ever. The cute little habits and amusing oddities that you've noticed have the potential to make you tear your hair out. Because moving in together isn't just 'with them all the time' it's 'sharing space,' it's 'assimilating her
shit with my
stuff' (bless you, George Carlin)
It's a big step. You have to want to do it. I've lived with others most of my adult life, be they friends or girlfriends and when it clicks, it's fantastic. However, you have to work for it...dumb luck and blind obeisance aren't going to get anything done.
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Dad....?