As far as NoSoup's plan goes, she's really only spent the night at my place and/or vice versa two or three times in the two years we've been dating (Yes, that's sad. I know).
The biggest problem I have isn't the fact that by moving in together, I will be giving up a fair amount of freedoms and I don't think I quite want to let go of them just yet. Ehhh... That's a terrible reason, I know, but I don't think I'm quite ready to take that step. But, then again, from her perspective it has been two years with no sign of a true committment, I suppose.
Meh... I should go to sleep and think about this later.
And I agree that doing something because I've been pressure into it is a bad idea, but I thought being a man was all about doing what a woman wants (Or so it seems...).
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