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I love her dearly, but I don't want to give up the freedom to do the things I want to do just yet
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Sounds like you answered your question... you aren't ready to move in together yet... if you did... you might end up being resentful towards her that you can't do what you want -- when you want...
No Soups plan sounds like a good compromise - start gradually... just have her start spending more time at your place, or vice versa - without giving up your own independence yet... you might find yourself not missing the nights in with the boys.
Doing something because you've been pressured into it, is just the wrong reason to do something...