If indeed....these are the same woman.....you have nothing to lose. You worry of losing the relationnship by Not moving in together, and worry that you will lose freedom if you Do. To me at least.....if you actually care enough to forgive the indescretion, try it out...see where it goes, and be ready to cut your losses should it come to that.
You two are NOT married, and no one is gonna hold your hand in this....just dive in and hope for the best, all the while expecting the worst.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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