If you don't want your girlfriend around All The Time ... I think I agree with Analog - are you both in this relationship for the same reasons? If you're just wanting someone to have permanent girlfriend status - she needs to know this and be on the same page as you in order for the relationship to remain healthy.
From what you have typed, she's looking to take your relationship another step by moving together. If you plan to bail, do it before you get caught in a lease together. It's always less messy that way.
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