You're not really describing a healthy relationship here. You should definitely get to a point where you don't actively find her "bossy", and actually feel like you want to be around her more often.
If the idea puts you off, don't do it. It could be fear of committment, as i'm sure some people will likely suggest, but I don't think so. It just sounds like you genuinely aren't interested in spending more time with her. Perhaps it's time to re-evaluate the relationship?
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