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Originally Posted by Infinite_Loser
It was her fault as much as mine.
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I could not disagree more. People make their own decisions to cheat.
You do not "make" them, or "cause" them to cheat. What you're doing when you say this is mentally shielding yourself from judging her more harshly,
OR you're attempting to sooth your own guilt over doing something negative prior to the incident. That's all.
Unless you literally stripped her, sat her down on someone else's cock, and manually bounced her up and down on it, you did not have any part in making it happen.
People make their own choices in life. You cannot take responsibility for the final conscious decision of another.
If you think you said or did things that you're regretting because you believe it lead her down a path towards having feelings of infidelity, then that's something to examine- but the decision to take that action was hers.