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For myself, I get tired of seeing all the relationship threads. Most people can get answers to their questions/problems whatever simply by reading past threads on the subject.
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Amen. I'm just going to have an auto-reply to relationship advice in Tilted Sexuality:
"The solution to your problem is discuss it with your partner. If you/he/she truely love/like/respect you/her/him he/she will change what he/she is going which is causing problems in the relationship. You both are young and if you find yourselves desiring others, it is natural. What you/he/she must understand is that you/he/she have committed to a relationship and it will take hard work.
If he/she has cheated on you, it is not your fault no matter what they attempt to convince you of. It is a sign of putting his/her desires above your feelings. It shows shallowness and a complete lack of empathy for their partner. If he/she truely loved you he/she would never put themselves in a situation where it would occur. You dont need us telling you this, you know it yourself.
If he/she/you do not seem to be in the mood for sex it could be a number of things. Birth control or stress can be causes, but more often than not it is an indicator of unhappiness in the relationship. There is no way for us to know, talk to your partner outside of the bedroom.
Whatever other problems occur, talk to your partner. If you are unable to do this end the relationship because there's no way it would work out anyways."