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How many things involving our feelings and senses are choices? I don't see much difference between our sexuality and what we like to eat. We all like and dislike different foods but is it a choice or the bodies reaction to stimuli? I will not eat cranberries. Sure, I can put some on my plate, eat them and pretend to like them but in the end, they are something I would not choose if given a choice. Same thing here. You can choose to like men, date them and pretend that your feelings for women are the same as a heterosexual but you are only going against your true feelings. I think the only choice in this situation is the one where you pretend to like something you really don't. Your true feelings are not a choice.
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