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Old 06-05-2006, 06:27 AM   #17 (permalink)
maleficent
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Quote:
Originally Posted by FlatLand Flyer
I highly recommend either no food or just inexpensive snacks for your guests. It is not your job to feed them, they will also drink less alcohol on emptier stomachs (if you choose to have booze).
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Maybe I've been to entirely too many weddings over the years.. but ... you seriously would expect to get a gift of any value without feeding or boozing your guests? Cash bars, which are quite common in New England, are tacky enough, but no food? No food - no gift... (etiquette says, that the monetary value of the gift should be what the couple spends per head at the reception - cheap snacks costs about 75 cents per head? I'm not sure a 75 cent gift would be appreciated
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