Our wedding cost just under 5K (including honeymoon for a week, dress, and rings) for 150 people, lots of you will remember, I did a lot of it myself..for example...since I made the invitations myself, it was only 30 dollars for 150 of them. Our cake was a wedding gift so it was free. All the clothes were made, they werent "off the rack"
as for what it looked like
http://www.celticdesade.com/wedding.htm
you can judge for yourself lol Albeit we had a "different" wedding