I remember listening to an interview of a founder for some fundamentalist organization promoting the "reformation" of homosexuals....
The interviewer asked the founder if he believed people were born gay. The founder said "Everyone makes a conscious choice at some point in their life, whether they are going to be sexually attracted to men, or sexually attracted to women."
The interviewer asked, "So did you choose between being sexually attracted to men or women?
The founder replied somewhat hesitantly "Yes, and I chose women"
The interview asked, "So at what age did you decide not to be sexually attracted to men anymore?"
The founder quickly spat out "Well.. I've always been attracted only to women"...
So much for having a choice...
It's my belief people are born with their sexual orientation. It is also my belief, that those who are most disturbed/ashamed with where they land on the Kinsey scale, are often the loudest homophobic voices to be heard.