I definitely think it is not a choice. What is at the root of it is a bit more debatable, but I think in most cases it is due to biology. Undoubtedly, there are cases in which it is due to psychology, but that doesn't make it any more of a "choice." The fact so many people do begin to realize they are homosexual at such a young age as 14 doesn't really make sense within the argument that it's a "choice." Teenagers generally like to "fit in." Considering how difficult it has been for many people who realize they're homosexual, especially if they came out in their teen years, I really find it hard to believe they "chose" to make their lives so hard at that time.
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