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While i believed that this was a joke thread at first, i'd like to make a serious response based on the assumption that the original post was legit.
Why are you so concerned with your wife (and perhaps yourself) changing? Change itself is neither good nor evil. Usually it is interesting and refreshing, but perhaps a little scary at first. That you wish your wife to stagnate, to stay the same over many years, is what disturbs me most about your post. The leaps of logic to an affair i can comprehend, even emphasize about. The underlying assumption that you don't want your wife to change i just don't understand, and I can't think of any personal experiences that could correspond to this belief. Perhaps you could clarify?
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