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Its just really frustrating that it takes her pretty much completely emotionally disconnecting and walking out the door before changes are made, love is fallen back into, etc. I've seen this SO MANY TIMES.
It's good that you recognize that you have been but shouldn't smother her. That will just give her more ammo to call it quits.
It's gonna take time, and a lot of it. Don't let a heavy cloud of expectation weigh over everything you guys do. Analog is dead on with his analogy.
Good luck.
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At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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