ChadB

The biggest issue I'm having in showing her I love her without smothering her. This is constantly on my mind. I want to talk about our problems and how to fix them. But she is not so motivated as I am. She doesn't really want to talk about it. Not bringing it up makes me feel like we aren't addressing it and not trying to change it. I really want to give her the space but doing that makes me feel like I'm letting her go.

She has said she believes I love her. She has also said she is impressed with my changes. But she said she doesn't love me. We had a nice family weekend last week and she said she enjoyed being with me but she pulled away from contact. More like I was a friend than a lover.

A few times during our weekend (at a waterpark) she made a few comments that confused me. Once I asked her to save my seat and she replied I will unless a cute guy wants to sit there. Was she teasing me or was she trying to hurt me? I didn't say anything. Then another time she told me a lifeguard was totally checking out her tits (yes she said it like that). I wasn't sure how to react to that but I said, "Well so am I". and she gave me a scoff. Very confusing.