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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Okay, Sharon... You may not like this, but I'm going to stand by my earlier suggestion that you have a professional help you look into whether this is sexual addiction or not.
I say that because the tone of your second post was radically different from your first post, and it was the tone of an addict justifying their addiction and convincing others and themselves that it's all right.
Again, I have no problem with the things you did. But I think that there's an attitude or belief structure underlying your choice to do those things that you'd be well advised to take a very close look at.
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A person who wants to do something justifies it before doing it.
Someone who's trying to be alright with something justifies it afterwards.
the addict analogy is on point and I do agree, you should try to seek out some help professional or amatuer (12 step program) to figure out the underlying issues.
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