Newlyable, sounds like you just needed someone to cling to and make you feel protected, but kinda sounds like you've chosen the wrong road. One needs to grow as a person before they can give themselves (so to speak) to another. You need to find yourself and where you want to go ....... all without the influence of others. My family means the world to me and I couldn't possibly imagine moving too far from them. But it's your life. Do what's right for you. Are you both feeling suffocated? Did you ever have counselling for the abuse as you've obviously got some issues that need to be talked over.
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ciao bella!
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