Arn't we supposed to answer our own questions also?
One time when my current girlfriend and i were taking "a break" i wrote down some things that i never sent to her ... when we got together again, we both sat down and went over it, and turned some of the negative things itto positive things.
When you have some free time on your hands, what do you do to relax?
In the summer, i like to hop on the motorbike and go for a nice slow drive in the country. in the winter i'm a couch and tv kinda guy.