Wow Chadb! I'm so sorry to hear this. But yes, this has been happening over such a significant period of time that it's going to take a lot of time to make amends. But it takes 2 to tango right? And you've been married a long time too. People do change.
Have you told her how you're feeling and what you've now realised? She's obviously very hurt, but she wouldn't have stayed around if she didn't truly love you. Unless it's for comfort - is this how you're feeling? You need to let her know that it is not for this reason if that's the case. Best of Luck ......... if this is truly what you want!!
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ciao bella!
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