your relationship didn't get to the state it's in overnight, that developed over time... it's not going to be fixed overnight, that is going to take time...
She hasn't packed her bags and left, so you're still in it... i'd say just keep doing what you're doing and being honest in counseling... patience is what will get you there...
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